How Cohabitation Affects Your Alimony Payments

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Cohabitation can be a complex concept to navigate, especially when it comes to alimony payments. Many people have the impression that payments automatically end if an ex moves in with someone else, and that is not always the case. While major life changes can impact alimony, that doesn’t mean they will.

What Is Cohabitation Under California Law?

Under California law, cohabitation typically means that a spouse that is being supported is living with another adult in a romantic way. It involves more than random overnight stays or casual dating. Courts tend to look at whether or not the couple shares a place of residence and live in a way that indicates a financial or a domestic partnership.

Judges can examine factors like shared expenses, leases or mortgages, or any evidence that shows that the couple presents themselves as one household. The key issue is if the new living arrangement reduces the spouse’s financial need from their previous marriage. While there’s no official checklist, courts are known to conduct a fact-specific analysis based on all contributing circumstances.

Does Cohabitation Automatically End Alimony?

Cohabitation doesn’t automatically end spousal support in California. Under Family Code § 4323, cohabitation creates an assumption that the supported spouse has a decreased need for financial support. This means that the burden shifts to the supported spouse to show that support should continue at its current level.

It’s important to know that payments don’t just stop on their own. A court order is required to modify or end support. If your divorce judgement or settlement agreement contains a specific clause addressing cohabitation, that area can control the outcome. The other option is to file a formal request with the court to try getting a modification.

What Evidence Is Used to Prove Cohabitation?

Since cohabitation cases are based on facts, having evidence is critical. Courts can consider documentation such as shared lease agreements, mortgage statements, or any utility bills that lists both people at the same address. Financial records that show shared bank accounts or shared expenses can also be taken into account.

Other evidence that can be brought up includes social media, photographs, mail, and witness testimony that confirms that the couple lives together. In certain cases, investigators can be used to document living arrangements. It’s key to note that all evidence must be obtained lawfully and ethically. Strong, well-documented proof helps to significantly increase the likelihood of a successful modification request.

How to Request a Modification in San Diego

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If you wish to reduce or terminate spousal support based on cohabitation, you need to file a Request for Order with the San Diego family court. The filing needs to properly show the change in life circumstances that indicate the supported spouse is cohabiting in a way that lessens their financial need.

When handling all of this, timing is everything. Support will continue with the original ordered amount until a new court order is issued, despite whether cohabitation has started already. Acting fast can prevent unnecessary overpayment in your case. Once everything is filed, the court will schedule a hearing where both parties can present their evidence and arguments relating to the modification request.

Seeking Legal Guidance

Dealing with cohabitation modifications can be overwhelming. California law requires strategic preparation and a clear presentation of evidence from all parties involved. Having a general suspicion that an ex is living with someone is not enough to prove your point in the court. Required documentation and an effective argument is essential.

An experienced San Diego family law attorney can help gather the right evidence and present a clear argument for modification. Acting as early and strategically as possible can not only help protect your financial interests, but also ensure that you are properly adhering to California law. 

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