move after divorce

What If I Have To Move After A Divorce?

Sometimes a man works diligently to create the ideal visitation schedule only to find, six months after a divorce is final, that he is being transferred to a distant location. What happens when your...
single dads

Single Dads Can Be Custodial Parents Too

While most custody agreements are centered around shared or joint custody of children, a growing number of single dads are taking on the role of sole custodian. This is especially common if the mother...
debt division in divorce

Marital Debt Division in a California Divorce

When a couple decides to divorce, they divide more than assets. They must also divide debt that has been incurred during the marriage. California is considered a “community property” state. This means assets acquired...
in-laws and divorce

How To Handle Your In-Laws After A Divorce

For some men, divorce means more than just freedom from the stress of a bad marriage. It can also mean a release from the toxic in-laws that made their life miserable when they were...
kids and divorce

How To Help Your Kids Deal With Divorce

Divorce can be hard on children, but it can be made easier by the way you handle things. You have a great deal of control over how your kids are affected by a divorce,...
false abuse allegations

Handling False Abuse Allegations

Many men involved in divorces are facing false abuse allegations by their former spouse. These allegations may take the form of reported threats you made toward your spouse or the children or reports of...
confronting your ex

Is Confronting Your Ex a Good Idea?

For most men, confronting a former spouse about bad behavior is a recipe for disaster, particularly if the spouse is trying to lure the husband into an incriminating situation for personal gain and sympathy...
depression and divorce

Could You be Suffering From Depression?

Divorce is one of the most stressful times of your life, and it can often lead to depression. However, many people, particularly men, do not even realize that they are depressed! The symptoms of...
spousal support

What Is Spousal Support?

In California, spousal support is meant to bridge the gap between divorce and the need of the former spouse for a similar standard of living. California law dictates that after 10 years of marriage,...
before getting divorced

A Few Things to Consider Before Getting Divorced

There are a few important things to consider before getting divorced. Many of these considerations have to do with taking care of yourself physically and emotionally. It is important to work through your feelings...